Forgiveness and Fear Ramblings.
So the question today is "If I don't forgive and move on will I be just like the one who wronged me?" Initially, I would say that is correct, but there is a problem though. I believe this saying, but I find that there are times when I would rather hand on to the anger and bitterness. There are times when I feel the one who is wronged is winning if I just give in and forgive him. I know that's wrong, but it's natural to want the one who hurt you be hurt too right? Thinking about my father, I know I should forgive him, but I don't know if I want to. How can you forgive someone for the abuse and hate that I have shown every day. I know it's not supposed to be easy, but why does it seem impossible? How can you forgive someone who isn't sorry that they hurt you? Is it possible? I know the theory is wrong, but a part of me feels if I don't forgive him, I am somehow hurting him, when in reality, I am only hurting myself. I don't know. I never claime...